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You are bright, handsome, have a great winning smile, and from your article I would say you are eminently dateable and sexy too. Hi guys, I can understand that feeling disabled gays have when sex is not in sight. Til then, I feel extremely self conscience and once I heard a guy in a bar tell his friend, people like him should stay home. Nice eh?
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I am disabled and live 2 hours north of Seattle. For a liberal area I find the Pacific Northwest very closed minded when it comes to dating a disabled person. Then he resents any ignorant questions or comments they make about disabilities. This article has almighty hit right spot on and accurate. That truth! Guys in Houston have been preaching the equality, inclusion, and tolerance, but are they actually practicing what they preach? Bad advice is rife. Typically, you know these sources.
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Be strong, Josh. Ask a guy to put some good words out for you and set you up with a guy who is willing to take a chance. Really, they talk that way in real life? But no one talks that way in real life! Endy WTF??
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Is that really your pic? Hard to believe you have any trouble getting boinked at all… deaf or not. Not that I doubt what you say, just that it seems so implausible. Do you think it could be a communication issue and guys just not wanting to invest the time into learning ASL? Through online dating sites? If so, I think you need to be explicit about your CP and your sexual abilities and preferences.
If your self-esteem depends on your ability to hook up with a perfect hunk, you may need a therapist more than a date. Danny, whatever his flaws might be, his life is immensely more difficult and challenging than mine and presumably yours. I think the bathhouse is a place to go as a last resort. It is much better for any young man to give ourselves the chance to persevere in talking first, even online, to a potential lover, learn to know each other step by step, than going for sex in a bathhouse or other cruising places.
It is not a question or morals, but a question of not giving in to imprinting a habit that could take him away from searching more complete and satisfying relationships. Because it will be more and more difficult as time goes by. There is a risk this habit crystallizes in his mind like a short circuit to satisfaction and prevents him from healing whatever relationship issue he may also have if he has any.
Going to the bathhouse can be very addictive and the time spent there is lost for making your love relationship experience, mature emotionally and develop the skills to keep a boyfriend by your side. Still, be careful not falling in risky habits. Also, as I read recently someone saying wisely: I think a lot of the problem is where gay men tend to flock towards — very competitive, affluent cities where the most successful among us move to.
I lived in Toronto for much of my adult life and found absolutely NOTHING — reason being most gay men who move there have very high levels of post-graduate education, high paying corporate jobs and expectations for perfection — be it condos, cars and definitely men. Seattle is also one of those places. The strike we have against us is the fact that the cities we want to live in are also the least affordable and most competitive.
Unless you develop a very thick skin and are okay with those facts of living in cities like Seattle, I think you might be happier in a smaller city without the attitudes and personalities you are finding. No one is entitled to sex. No one HAS to.
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Not you or any other easily offended group Race, femininity, obese…. Why writing an article complaining and closing it saying you are cool with never being fucked. It seems you are not if you had to write this. I give a fuck what people think. FFS grow up people! After replying to a few commenters who missed major parts of the article I read down and realized my attempt would be futile. What will he do if the drought stretches to a year or two? Go postal on everyone? Why dont you show the guy a little compassion and just go postal on yourself!
You have No Idea what its like to be gay and disabled…. Are you serious? Going without sex for 2 and bit months is not a big deal. That was my point since you obviously need help with comprehension. PS I bet the irony of telling someone to have a bit of compassion in the same sentence that you tell him to go postal on himself, is lost on you too. What a beautiful human being you must be. As a gay male in seattle, the guys are hella shallow and pretentious.
So I feel you man. And if there was some way we could get in contact with each other, that would be cool. For friends, or even fwb. Really though, some of the best sex Ive had was with a paraplegic man.
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I wouldnt mind giving you a ride? Please log in to add your comment Need an account? Search for: Get Queerty Daily Subscribe to Queerty for a daily dose of life dating disabled stories and more. Navalator If he was here in Bangkok I woud crawl all over him. BillyElliotwannabe Thisismylife, he did not mention a colostomy bag. Nahald He could come across as too needy, Cuteness that he has aside, that will turn some guys off. BigDaddy58 Hey buddy, you are not alone! I mean, you did read the article, yes? You did see the specific title, yes?
CarlIsle Thank you! Read between the lines people. JodyBoy I have to say, that muscular guys for me are a turnoff, a deal breaker even. ChrisK JodyBoy. Ukin Blome WOW!
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CastleSF Maybe celibacy is the answer. Mandrake Excellent point! StupidBoy Good point. Kangol You really come off as anti-sex. ChrisK CastleSF. CastleSF Chris, stop spreading the untruth. ChrisK I used to live in Seattle. Sam More generally, it is not common for gay people to find easily and quickly the right boyfriend. Of course, I am just reviewing some possibilities. Sam dfwenigma, I agree his difficulties to find a lasting partner may not be only linked to his disability or living area, and it might even not be the main issue.
Josh I can attest after living there that the cute factor is pretty much entirely missing in the gay community.