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There is a sense of entitlement that comes with "tops" that makes them problematic for me, a versatile dude will understand the intricacies of bottoming, the pain, the pleasure. They also feel some Tops treat Bottoms like second-class gays. When a total top walks into the gay bar pic. Fast for 90 days, cleanse yourself in the purifying waters of Lake Minnetonka — Doof-kun? Electivirus October 14, AylaStock June 23, There is no such thing as a total top every gay will or have bottom for someone. Good lord. Looking through those tweets, few observations 1.
I eat ass and I love my ass eaten. Does that make me vers? How about everyone just shut up about all these stupid labels and divisions and just be people. Total tops may be pricks but those pricks keep us bottoms happy. Marveling at my privileged fingers I have them! Ah, the privilege! Maybe this arises from their meeting via apps instead of in person. In the past, meeting in person led to more spontaneous actions that were not talked about much, and obviously not written down ahead of time.
On apps they tend to define their sex lives pretty strictly in print often in excruciatingly fine detail! Too many young gays let porn and TV do their thinking for them. Gay spaces are disappearing because gays now meet and interact online more often than offline. Granted, I live in a smallish city a few hours from LA. The only gay men I really interact with outside of hookups is a closeted bi friend, my boyfriend, and some of his gay friends.
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There was a time back in the day under the old management when this site would poke fun of such cringy arrant nonsense. Seriously, this pernicious nonsense does more harm to young gays coming to terms with their sexuality than a lot of homophobia. At least the homophobia is obviously hateful and discriminatory; this is just nasty. Gay media, gay television, gay movies, all portray and sell a narrative of femininity as the ideal for gay men. Yet the majority of gay men claim they want a masculine man? I think that old paradigm of separating men who lean towards women, and men who lean towards men, is beginning to die a much deserved death.
It was never right for society to separate a subgroup of men from their brothers, and instill fear, hatred and loathing into the larger group that leans towards women. It destroyed intimate friendships between these men to the point where if they went off with just their buddy s for the weekend, or out to dinner, or on a vacation, or gasp! They fall into this separation paradigm, hook, line and sinker. I look at them now, after many years of observation, as complete sheep, lemmings, all being led to the cliff to jump off.
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Nothing more, nothing less. I have no use for it, or them. Dear Queerty: It may be good for clickbait. No, but perhaps the other gays and straights I met back then deserve one. The day I accepted that I was attracted to boys, I accepted that nothing I did in bed was going to make me any more or less queer. Sodotite and topologize made me chuckle. I just hope none of these people are serious. There are other ways for gay men to have sex. Anal is not the end-all-be-all of gay sex. It managed to find every cliche stereotype possible.
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Please log in to add your comment Need an account? R32 if you enjoy sticking your cock into a man's ass you're probably gay, unless you equally enjoy pussy. Then you're bi. Are any of the people responding to this thread gay. Most of the responses sound like some hypothetical discussion conducted by delusional fag hags trying to convert their gay friend with whom they are in love. Or is this thread merely a time warp from the s. If the preference for sexual act defined homosexuality, or heterosexuality for that matter, then a virgin could not define his sexuality until after engaging in all forms of sexual congress.
It suggests that a man whose only had sex with women couldn't possibly be gay. If what particular sexual act in which you engage defines whether you're gay, then conversion therapy could be construed as working if the person denies attraction in favor of heterosexual relationships - something we all generally agree is ludicrous. Being gay is not about what you do, but with whom you desire to do it, what you find sexually desirable, what causes arousal - all else being equal, would you rather do something with the same or opposite gender.
Funny how many perceive the 'top' as the masculine partner. Hell, even in gay porn many performers hold out on bottoming until they have not else to give. I'm a top and when I hook up with a hot bottom, it's his ass I'm after--not his dick. No offense, but I don't give a shit about that thing. Keep it out of the way and in a jockstrap, preferably. Yeah, I also see a lot of ads from guys that say they are looking for percent total tops who do not ever touch a penis.
A lot of bottoms do not want tops to touch their penis. What R35 said.
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I knew I was gay when I was eight or nine. I didn't even know what sex was and I certainly didn't understand what happened between the sheets. I did know that big masculine men on the TV made me feel all weak and tingly and I was going to marry a boy when I got older. I don't consider men who are only interested in particular body parts or acts e. I believe they have a certain fetish, not a homosexual orientation. I don't have an interest in such men myself. Similarly, I tend to avoid bisexual men, as many of them seem to fall into these categories. Are there exceptions? But as a rule I don't feel compatible with them.
And he might like you as a person, but sexually, all he cares about is your butt? To be fair everything the poster described is a pretty near match to Michelle Bachmann's sex life, and I'm pretty sure she's not gay. But if this hypothetical guy is ONLY interested in butts? No other part of a man's body? Yeah, I consider that a fetish. No different really to those 'size queens' who care nothing about the man except his penis.
In a biography on Onassis, when he was a young man he seduced a male prison guard in order to have his father released from jail. I don't really care who goes down on me as long as they're attractive. But I've encountered numerous straight women who claim they're just "curious". I don't think you can enjoy going down on another woman and just write that off as curious.
Some men will put their dicks into anything with a hole, so does fucking an apple pie make a man gay, absolutely not.
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That pie, however, is clearly a closet case. Even in the West, many men still think this way. With a partner,Im totally flexible. But with a trick,I prefer to be submissive. And I love the ones who wont kiss or suck dick or get fucked,total turn on. I'm always baffled by the rentboy ads where they emphasize TOP in their narrative descriptions, but when you scroll down to look at their stats, they've selected "versatile. Hung top here again.